Point one: God designed us for deep relationship.

Point two: Deep relationships should impact the way we live our lives.

Point three: Deep relationships should demonstrate a commitment.

Discussion Questions:

Watch the past message, then choose questions to discuss with your Growth Group.

  1. What was something that stood out to you from this past Sunday’s message? Share what you learned and how it will impact your life.

  2. If you describe a good friend, what main qualities would you mention?

  3. Read 1 Samuel 18:1-4; 1 Samuel 20:42; 1 Samuel 23:17. We read about the covenant between Jonathan and David. What is a covenant, and how is it different from a contract?

  4. What led Jonathan to make a covenant with David? Why did Jonathan give up his future claim to the throne in favor of David?

  5. Can you recall a time when a friend made a notable sacrifice for you?

  6. What level of loyalty does Jonathan show to David? Describe a time a friend showed this kind of loyalty to you.

  7. In what way does Jonathan's act of sacrifice and his agreement with David exemplify Jesus?

  8. Read John 15:9-17. Jesus calls his disciples his friends. What can we learn about being friends with Jesus from Jonathan's friendship with David?

  9. What are some ways the church can take inspiration from Jonathan? How can Growth Groups learn from Jonathan’s example?